濃情七日

I was really impressed by Chester 's preaching on24 June 2007.

From Wednesday QT on 27, I am quite entangled by Connie's stress in almost all aspects in life and felt unloved or even abandoned. So I decided to call for a love campaign to Connie known as 濃情七日. Each of us will take up a date to serve or enjoy something personally and feel excited to the giver in the pursuit. Thanks for girls' support. The campaign gets aflight.

Furthermore, Bonnie moved a step forward. She actioned. In Bonnie-bt blog http://bonnie-bt.blogspot.com/2007/07/uc.html. She further elaborated as

「熱情」、

「深情」、

「濃情」、

「柔情」I love this.

「激情」、

「長情」、

「癡情」

Gary Chapman「愛的語言」:-

五種「愛的語言」包括:

1. Words of affirmation 肯定的言語。包括鼓勵的話語、仁慈的話語、謙遜的話語。William James 說過「人最深處的需要可能是感覺被欣賞」，對配偶的喜歡之事常表示口頭的讚賞，對不喜歡之事抑制你的抱怨。

2.Quality Time 精心的時刻。把注意力集中在對方身上，全心全意跟對方一起作些他喜歡的事，包括；精心的同在一起，給予對方全部的注意力、精心的會話，焦點在傾聽、精心的活動，全心全意跟對方一起作些他喜歡的事。

3. Gift 接受禮物。包括；把自己當成禮物，當配偶需要你時，你就在那裡陪伴，或是購買禮物，但禮物不需要是昂貴的。

4.Act of Service 服務的行動。藉著為對方服務來表達愛意，如: 幫忙作家事、溜狗、洗車、做一餐美味的菜肴。

5.Body Touch 身體的接觸。講這種「愛的語言」的人會渴望對方伸出手來撫摸他們，如:用手梳理配偶的頭髮、撫摸背部、牽手、擁抱、按摩對方的腳。

以上的五種愛的表達，那一種是我的長處呢？

In consequence, Bonnie did it first.

Bonnie cooked Japanese Pumpkin Tempura for Connie. The Japanese Pumpkin was planted in bonnie's experimental organic farm. Connie said, "Excellent taste!" "yummy, yummy!" remarked by me after reading this.

Bonnie also gave Connie some freshly harvested Taiwan Basil home. Connie said, "Wonderful aroma, it's even better than a bunch of flower!" Moreover, we had a hearty talk and I gave Connie big big hugs. It seems I did #1, 2,3,4 and 5 loving language in just one evening. Unbelievable.......Bonnie cooked Japanese Pumpkin Tempura for Connie. The Japanese Pumpkin was planted in bonnie's experimental organic farm. Connie said, "Excellent taste!" Bonnie also gave Connie some freshly harvested Taiwan Basil home. Connie said, "Wonderful aroma, it's even better than a bunch of flower!" Moreover, we had a hearty talk and I gave Connie big big hugs. It seems I did #1, 2,3,4 and 5 loving language in just one evening. Unbelievable.......

Let's come to see what happens on 2nd day.

Me - will keep you informed and updated.